Sleeping Tips For Baby
Feeling exhausted and having trouble putting your little one to sleep? Try these tips we collected from other mommies.
Remember, there are many ways to accomplish the same desired result. Apply the tips provided here and mold them to the result that best suits you, your baby and your family’s needs.
For You:
- For the few weeks after birth, try to sleep when baby sleeps. Household chores can be done later….or better yet, by someone else.
- Allow for a night feeding to be done by dad or another supporting caregiver.
For Your Baby
- Newborns cannot be “spoiled” in the first 2 months of life, therefore, assist your baby to fall asleep by any means necessary during this time (examples include holding, rocking, sing, giving pacifier).
- Avoiding “training” your baby to sleep only when it is dark and quiet. This can be accomplished by allowing for some noise with daytime activities.
- Apply slow and gentle pressure to your baby’s skin just before nap time or bedtime to help your baby settle down.
- Try to put your baby to sleep before he/she becomes overtired. Babies can become extremely cranky when they are overtired.
- Sleep patterns in babies usually do not appear until approximately 3-4 months of age. You might find it helpful to keep a schedule of your baby’s sleep pattern for approximately 1 week to help you determine your baby’s sleep routine. Determining your baby’s sleep routine will help you know when to put your baby to sleep before he/she becomes overtired.
- Around 3-4 months of age, babies can begin to soothe themselves to go to sleep. Allow your baby approximately 10 minutes to put himself/herself back to sleep. If your baby remains unsettled, offer your assistance only for a couple of minutes at a time and try to do as little as possible to help your baby fall asleep.
Maximizing Your Sleep at Night with a Newborn:
- Do not let your baby sleep for more than 3 consecutive hours throughout the day.
- Feed your baby more frequently throughout day. This will help you to stretch the nighttime feedings a bit longer. Even an extra 30 minutes to an hour of sleep is helpful.
- Give your baby a pacifier when putting your baby to sleep. Babies are soothed by sucking and pacifiers have been associated with decreasing the risk of SIDS.
- Skip a diaper change (unless child has diaper rash) in the middle of the night to keep the level of stimulation low.
- Make the night-time feedings boring. Try not to talk to much too your baby, keep the light low…just change your baby’s diaper (only if needed), feed your baby, and then put your baby back to bed.
- Dress your baby in a gown to make diaper changes easier at nighttime.
- Some infants, especially in the first month of life, feel secure when swaddled. It is best to swaddle your baby during the day when you are awake and checking on him/her. If you do swaddle your baby a night, do it safely either by swaddling your baby with his/her arms outside of the blanket to prevent blanket from covering mouth and noise during sleep or by using The Miracle Blanket.
- Provide the last feeding as late as possible.
- For formula fed babies:
- Pre-measure water in a baby bottle and pre-measure the desired amount of formula in a separate closed container. Prepare enough of these for the entire night. When it is feeding time, mix the water and powder for 1 feeding together. This eliminates the need to warm the milk.
Maximizing Your Sleep at Night When Your Baby is 2 months and Older:
- Place your baby in his/her crib awake.
- Establish a night time routine before bed-time. For example, your routine my include giving your baby a bath after the last feeding, followed by a brief massage, changing into his/her pajamas, reading a short story or singing a lullaby. Between 2-4 months, it may be helpful to do your bedtime routine first and then provide the last feeding.
- Be consistent with nap time and bedtime routines.
- Be sure your baby sleeps in the same place and around the same times.
- Begin your bedtime routine early so that your baby is sleeping before he/she becomes overtired.
- After 6 months of age, when the risk of SIDS has decreased somewhat, you can allow your child to sleep with a comfort item such as a blanket or a small stuffed animal.
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well, we have a 2 1/2 month old who is getting hungrier and hungrier, she seems to eat more. she wakes up in the middle of the night to eat. I was told today that I should put a little bit of rice cereal in her last bottle of the day to keep her tummy full. so that's what I'm trying to night. also-who watches her when you are at work? are the letting her sleep more than they should? It also depends on how old your baby is. The older they become the more likely they are to sleep.
O! something else I just thought of, you know how the hospital staff wraps a baby in blankets (my fiance and I call it a burrito wrap!) they do that because infants are use to being snug, and now that they are in the open, they tend to jerk, and the sudden movement keeps them awake, so wrap baby up with the hands down to the side, lay baby down at a slight angle, incase of spitup so baby doesnt choke,(if you use a pacifier -we call it a "binkie") keep binkie in mouth (some baby's prefer sucking for comfort) baby may fuss a little, don't let baby fuss for more than 5 minutes, gently rock a little til eyes close then lay to sleep. That works for us, I just updated this today-I also tried the rice in her formula(3 ounces of formula 1 tablespoon rice -cut the nipple open a little for a better flow), she's sleeping like a rock!, but she's 2 1/2 months-i wouldnt feed cereal to baby if younger than that. Good luck! I hope you get some sleep.
DO NOT FORCE THE BABY TO STAY AWAKE DURING THE DAY! C'mon the lil one is only 5 days old!! At night when your feeding him keep the lights really dim and don't change the diaper unless the baby has done #2 in it. If you try and keep the baby awake your playing with his mind and your abusing him. Surly you must have known that having a newborn=no sleep for awhile for you!! Why would you expect your 5 day old baby to suddenly sleep at night. If you remember when you were pregnant, the baby is lulled to sleep by you walking around during the day and then kicks a lot when your trying to sleep. Give it time and don't DONT interefere with your babies natural sleeping pattern for awhile. Mine did not get thier days and nights figured out until they were about 2 1/2 – 3months old. It will get easier but realize you have a brand newborn and this is what they do. Hang in there and again DO NOT SCREW WITH HIS HEAD BY TRYING TO FORCE HIM AWAKE DURING THE DAY!! YOU CANNOT FORCE A BABY INTO A SO CALLED "SCHEDULE" THIS YOUNG. A BABY GOES BY HIS OWN SCHEDULE AND FORCING HIM TO LIVE BY OUR CLOCK IS MEAN AND WILL BE HARMFUL TO HIM!!
We had real problems with our daughter (sleepwise). First it was her acid reflux and then once we got that under control, she got a few colds in a row. What worked for us was to (a) have a solid routine (b) have sound machine in the room (c) have a music player in room to help lull to sleep (Fisher-Price Rainforest) (d) make sure she ate RIGHT before bed (e) lay her down while she was still a little bit awake (this way she could learn to put herself to sleep and (f) at 7 months we would not feed her in the middle of the night anymore and let her cry a bit and she slept through the night from that point forward.
At 7 weeks his schedule will change a million times between now and 5-7 months when you can start to expect him to sleep through the night. Keep diligent with the routine and whenever you feel he is ready, let him cry a bit (but I wouldn't recommend this before 5 months).
Also, what worked for us (because I was SO sleep deprived) was I would wake up with our daughter if she was up from bedtime until about 4am (she would be up every hour some nights) and my husband would wake up between 4am and 7am when he left for work. Then, at least, I could get a few hours of rest.
It's nice to be wanted so much by someone, isn't it? It's hard to say NO to someone who obviously loves and needs you, but that's what you need to do.
Spend more time outside in the afternoon. That will make him sleepy.
Establish a bedtime routine so he knows what's coming and is ready to go to bed. I always read to my children, sometimes sitting by their bed to read to them after they were in bed. An8mo old may not understand the story, but he enjoys hearing you talk.
He isn't waking because he's hungry; he's waking out of habit because he knows you'll come. When he cries at night, check to be sure he isn't in pain or wet, then put him back to bed. You may have to listen to him cry for a few nights, but he will get the idea that you're not going to pick him up until morning.
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I got caught in this trap with my first 2 children. (I have 3) My children are 17-g, 9-g and 6-b. The worst time was with my 2nd girl. She became ill with a cold and I just brought her into my bed, so I could get some sleep. I was forever getting up and down and worried about her breathing, so this is how I justified her sleeping with me. Only things is, she liked it so much that I couldn't get her back into her own bed. It was awful. My husband and I would have to go into other parts of the house to be intimate and it was a difficult time.
You have to just put him in his own room. Get a routine of how he goes to bed. A nice warm bath will help sooth him. Apply his lotion after his bath and massage his little body and this will relax him.
Then give him hugs and kisses and lay him in bed and rub his back and pat a bit..or however he sleeps..if he's on his back, rub his tummy and then say I love you and leave.
I don't think I could handle cold turkey just lying him down and not returning if he needed me, but I wouldn't pick him up. Just pat him and reassure him everything is ok and eventually he will stay in his bed.
If you return to his room when he cries, keep your voice low or use no voice at all; just pat and rub lightly or hum a little quiet tune. He will adjust to going to his own bed and if he knows you are not far, he should be fine.
Good luck. I know it's a hard thing to leave them, but by letting him sleep in his own bed, you're allowing him to learn more self confidence.
*hug*
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Oh girl, I feel your pain. My son was the exact same way. Waking every 2 hours, all night long for six months straight. Nothing I did helped, until my pediatrician recommended sleep training. I was reluctant at first, but it worked and it saved my life. Now at 20 months old, my son has been sleeping 11 hours every night since he was 8 months old.
Do some research on the Ferber method, or ask your pediatrician. You will have to hear your precious little one cry a bit, but trust me, it will work, and you will both be happy. It is so important for your little one to get a good night's sleep at this age.
This is going to be a long one, but please read it, I promise it will help.
First of all, no more swaddling. He is too old for that. Second, no more feeding at night, he is too old for that as well, and will never sleep if you continue to do it. Thirdly, even with the reflux (my son had it as well) he needs to learn to sleep through it, and trust me, he can learn to do that, but you have to train him.
Here is what you do. After your bedtime routine, put your baby to bed awake. Tell him good night, tell him you love him and leave the room. If he cries, you wait five minutes, go in and check him to make sure everything is okay (no fever, no vomit, no tangled blanket, etc) and if he is physically fine, even if he is crying, you tell him good night, pat his back and leave the room. Do not pick him up, do not feed him. If he continues to cry, wait ten minutes, then check him again and repeat the process. You can continue the process of checking on him and leaving the room (increase the amount of time between checks by five minutes each time) until he falls asleep on his own. It is important for him to know that you will respond to his cries so that he does not feel abandoned, but it is also important for him to know that you are not going to hang around just becasue he does not want to sleep. He needs to learn to put himself to sleep on his own, without your help. The rocking, swinging, rubbing, etc. is actually feeding into his sleep problem at this age. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with rocking your child to sleep IF he then sleeps through the night. If he doesn't, then you know that is part of the problem.
Each time he wakes at night, you will follow the same procedure, until you are ready for him to get up for the day (7 a.m. is good). DO NOT feed him during the night. He is only hungry becasue he is used to being fed when he wakes, but trust me (and my ped.) if he is normal weight, he does not need it. I was breastfeeding, but either way, breast or bottle, it's the same. The first few nights it may seem like it is not working, and you are actually getting less sleep than you were before, but do not be tempted to stray from the program. Hang in there, and it WILL work eventually. It may take some time. Most of what I read said it would work within a week, but it took closer to a month with my son, but it DID work and has been well worth it for both of us. I did notice after the first few nights that he went longer between wakings and took less time to put himself back to sleep. But it was about four weeks of this before he finally slept a 12-hour night. I was concerned that his acid reflux was bothering him, but my ped. assured me that he could learn to sleep through it, and he did.
You can take my advice with a grain of salt, but I want you to know this is what worked for me in your situation. My pediatrician had studied this method an he recommended it to me when my son was six months old becasue he knew it was best for both of us to get some sleep. I didn't actually follow through with it until he was seven months, but it was truly worth every tear
Of course you will get opinions from other moms that say his waking is normal, or he will grow out of it. But sometimes, trained professionals really do know better than other moms. At seven months old, your son SHOULD be sleeping through the night,and he will with this method.
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But no disrespect to 50 hes makin good music but hes only in it for tha money. If he focused more on his music like his used to he better and at the top of the rap game but hes slowed down
My first tip: ditch that BLEEPIN' book! I hate baby training!
What did a baby ever do to deserve the kind of treatment?
I highly recommend, if you need a system, "The No-Cry Sleep Solution" by Elizabeth Pantley. It is a much more gentle way to help your baby sleep.
Here are some tips from Dr. Sears, until you can get a better book:
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/7/T070300.asp
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/7/T070100.asp
Sadly it doesnt matter what we think,, cuz ppl will buy his music and he’s a millionaire and we’re not..lol…I could hate him all I want but I’m still broke and he’s not…lol
Hi Paul,
I think the most important thing to start with is to get your baby into a good sleep routine. I had massive problems with getting my 4 month old son to sleep. He would just lie awake and cry for hours, then when he finally went to sleep he would wake every hour or two hours through the night and cry again! Talk about pulling our hair out …. we were absolutely desperate for sleep!
It was a baby sleep audio program recommended by a friend that finally saved us. We followed the advice and began by creating a baby sleep routine which included bathtime, dimming of the lights, putting James into his crib, final nappy change and then lullabies. We also made recommended changes to his naps during the day and used some of the other recommended techniques. Within two weeks he was sleeping through the night most nights with just the odd night where he would just wake once!
Definitely start by creating a good baby sleep routine though and you could find that solves most of your baby sleep problems.
Good luck!